Dating advice and tips: our best online strategies for men

Diverse strategies.

For men, online dating is somewhat of a mix between investing and being a salesman. But as all business men would do, and that is diversifying their portfolio, so should you try not to limit yourself to only one dating site. For better results, and for meeting the right woman, sign up to more than one online dating website.

You might ask what do sales have to do with online dating, or dating in general, well, it’s more likely you’ll have to sell yourself. You are the product and you need a lot of potential buyers. You need to be able to convince them that it’s your product they need to buy. If you sign up for multiple dating sites, chances for you to meet a girl are still slim.

Try not to just create a profile, if you are not an active member, as it won’t do you any good. It’s not as simple as signing up and then waiting for endless emails from beautiful women to come pouring in. They won’t respond to you if you do nothing at all.

What does being active on an online dating site imply, you ask? Well, you need to compose a complete profile, not just 2 sentences; you need to search for members, contacting women who catch your attention and respond quickly to your messages. Of course doing all these things on multiple sites can take some time, but if you try fitting it into your schedule, I can assure you it will be worth it.

Need more reasons? Well here is a more specific answer, on which I’m sure you will agree with me, women are indecisive. So many elements influences a woman’s decision when it comes to picking a partner and most of them are just out of our control, like “that time of the month” or getting out of a bad relationship.

It doesn’t really matter how much you try, how well written your profile is or how good your pick-up lines are, sometimes it’s just not enough, or it’s impossible to get them to spare a moment for you. Let’s be realistic here, women usually have a tough time when having to decide on something, so you need to contact as many different women as you can, until you find the right one for you. This is why you should be active on more online dating sites. Diversity will help you succeed.