• Question

    The “How old are you?” question

    What are you supposed to say when a younger woman asks you how old you are?

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  • Question

    Are pickup lines working?

    I have always wondered if pickup lines work or they are just lame. I never tried them because I thought I would look stupid, so when I pick up women I usually ask them a question or I am just being staightforward telling her that I would like to see her again. Should I try using some pickup lines as well?

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  • Question

    The importance of eye contact

    We are always told that body language and especially eye contact is very important if not crucial when meeting someone new. I get it, it is a question of confidence and attitude, but really how important eye contact is and why?

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    Dealing with rejection

    Sometimes women like to put men in uncomfortable situations and sometimes it seems like their only goal is to humiliate you when you try to approach them. How can you overcome this kind of situation?

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  • Question

    Being direct with a woman

    If I am really staightforward and direct with a woman will she blow me off or will she be interested in me?

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  • Question

    When do I let her know I am interested?

    How soon should you let a woman know I am interested in a romantic way?

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    An impressive date

    What could a man do on a first date to impress the woman and get her attracted to him?

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  • Question

    How to make a woman come to your place?

    When I meet a woman I really like and enjoy spending time with I have this problem of taking her back to my place. How can I make her feel more comfortable about getting intimate with me?

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  • Question

    Is non-stop texting a red flag?

    I have been going out with a girl and everything is great except the fact that she keeps texting me all the time. Does she really have nothing better to do than text me how much traffic there is on the streets?

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  • Question

    When is it appropriate to make a move on her?

    I was always wondering how long I have to date a woman before I make a move on her and take it to the next level. Is there a specific timeline to follow in this way, or you just go with the flow?

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    Importance of confidence

    How important is confidence when attracting women? I am not among the most confident and determined men, I am rather a shy guy looking for a nice woman.

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  • Question

    Do women like sex as much as men do?

    I have always wondered if women love sex as much as men do. Don’t they need it as much as we do?

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  • Question

    Her friend stands between us

    I met this wonderful girl whom I want to take out on a date, but her friend does not really like me or most of the guys that hit on her for that matter. How to ask her out without her friend interfering between us?

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  • Question

    Phone games

    After talking to a woman for a while I called her once to ask her out, but he said she will call me the next day. She didn’t but she told me that she forgot about it and I blew her off with a cocky line like “Do you expect me to believe that? I think I’m making you nervous”. What should I have done?

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    How to overcome anxiousness?

    How can a shy guy overcome his anxiousness when it comes to approaching women?

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  • Question

    I don’t want her to lose interest in me

    Hi, I have always done things by the book when I went out with women. I do not take them out to expensive dinners or buy them gifts. However, I recently met a really great woman whom I like a lot and I feel like I want to take her to dinner. She is amazing in every way and I do not want her to lose interest in me.What can I do?

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  • Question

    Why women fall for the bad guys

    I met this incredibly great girl in college and the problem is that no matter how nice and considerate I am around her, she does not seem to notice me. I did not take her out on a date or buy her something because I do not want her to think I am a wuss, but I enjoy spending time with her whenever we can. How can I make her attracted to me?

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    Million dollar question

    One of the girls I’ve been dating noticed that I’m veru successful with women and started asking me if it is only sex that I want. I didn’t answer anything and she eventually left. What was I supposed to tell her? What if she asks me the million-dollar question again?

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  • Question

    How to write her an e-mail

    I am not so good at picking up girls and whenever I manage to get a girl’s e-mail address, she does not answer back. What can I do?

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  • Question

    Single dad dating online

    I am in my 30’s and I am a single dad who does not have a lot of time to go out and meet women the traditional way. This is why I guess I will have to resort to online dating websites, but the truth is I have no experience in picking up women that way. What do you advise me to do?

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  • Question

    Approaching women with confidence

    I know that there are some girls who really like me, but the problem is, I am never able to just walk up to them, kiss them and take their number. I feel like I am no confident enough to approach them even if they like me. What can I do?

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  • Question

    Keep women from wanting a relationship

    I have had a serious relationship for 5 years and now, after we broke up I decided I want to meet women, but I do not want to get involved in a relationship for now. How can I date several women at the same time, but  keep them from wanting a relationship?

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  • Question

    Falling in love

    Due to the cocky and funny technique I managed to meet lots of girls, but I also fell in love with one of them. One of my friends suggested I should tell her that I like her and despite of the fact that I knew I shouldn’t have told her, I did it. She hasn’t talked to me ever since. What can I do?

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  • Question

    Wussy turned to man successful with women

    I am a shy guy so I started to read the article section on www.Letsbond.com and I found out how to become successful. However, one of the women who replied to me said she doesn’t feel comfortable meeting offline yet. Would another Cocky and funny message change her mind?

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  • Question

    More friends with benefits

    I hooked up with many women who were attracted to me, but they found out about one another and now I am the bad guy. How can I avoid this from happening in the future? How can I have intimate relationships with all of them without them getting mad at me? 

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  • Question

    Rich and handsome men vs. average men

    Is it true that you can have whatever woman you want if you are a handsome and wealthy man? Are all women attracted to this type of man?

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  • Question

    Refusing intimacy

    I have been dating someone for a few weeks now. Unfortunately, she barely touches me and doesn’t do anything to satisfy me from a sexual point of view. How should I take this? Should I stop pleasuring her too? I don’t think that it would be very productive. Any suggestions?

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    She is too nervous to meet in real life

     I met this woman on an online dating website and we have been talking for a while until I told her we should meet in person. She was pretty reluctant to my invitation saying that we do not know each other so well yet and maybe we should wait. What can I do?

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  • Question

    Older man dating younger women

    What should and older man do to get a younger woman interested? Are younger women hard to attract if you are older?

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  • Question

    She does not call back

    I have been dating this really nice woman and she always seemed to enjoy my company. Whenever we went out we had a lot of fun and she was always glad to see me. However, she does not return calls and she has no initiative to meet; she leaves it all to me. What can I do?

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  • Question

    Dealing with multiple women

    I have met many women but most of them want me to commit to them, but I am not ready for a relationship now. They do not agree when I explain it to them and call me selfish or ask me to leave. That is why I am asking you how can I deal with multiple girlfriends?

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  • Question

    She is choosing the “bad guy”

    Many women I liked were always complaining to me about their abusive or jerk boyfriends and considered me only as their friend. I was there, by their side and they never realized that I might be a better partner for them than that jerk. What can I do?

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    Getting away from obsessed women

    Some of the women I’m dating sometimes get obsessed. How can I turn them away? I am dating my boss’ daughter who is totally into me and who wants to turn me into a nice guy. How can I end this without hurting her and without being a wuss?

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  • Question

    Keep her interested

    What can a man do to make sure she is still interested in him and will continue to go out with him?

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  • Question

    How can you tell if she is interested?

     I have not been dating a lot in my life and this is exactly why i would like to know how you can tell if a woman is interested in you or not. Are there some specific gestures which reflect her interest?

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  • Question

    Taking her to dinner, or not?

    I understand that we are not supposed to pay for a woman’s attention and affection and this is not what I intend to do, but at some point I think I would like to take a woman out for dinner. Would not it be a right thing to do if we already went out a couple of times to have tea or coffee? What else can I do?

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  • Question

    Getting her attention on the road

    I am a man who spends most of his time on the road and many times when I am driving with my windows down and with my music loud I see girls at the stoplight looking at me. How can I make her roll down her window? After she rolls down what should I do? How can I get their attention?

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  • Question

    Can you make her like you more?

     How can you make a woman like you more? I have known this woman for a few months now and she does not seem to like me that much no matter what I do.

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  • Question

    Dealing with her psycho ex-boyfriend

    I am really attracted to a girl who is not only attractive but also challenging. The only problem is that she is with a psycho who has threatened to kill himself if she leaves him. She is afraid to dump him but he only uses her for sex and tries to control every aspect of her life. Should I stop talking to her? 

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  • Question

    Dating a shy girl

    I’ve met this wonderful girl at a party. We’ve had some drinks and a good time together, but after some research I’ve found out from a friend that she is shy and not so experienced with men. I am wondering if being confident and teasing her is a good method to pick her up cause I don’t want to hurt her feelings or make her feel bad. Does this work even for shy girls like her?

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  • Question

    Are women always testing men?

     I know that women have a different approach when dating men, but do you believe that dating them is a continuous test? Are they really judging us according to every answer we give them and every gesture we make? How can a man pass all these tests?

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    What’s next after you get her e-mail?

     Hello! I have read your advice about being confident when walking up to women and I did everything by the book. I went to a woman I liked and asked her for her e-mail address; I have to admit it was a success, but now I have no idea what to do next and how to do it. What do you advise me?

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  • Question

    Overcome your fear

    I don’t have problems talking to women but I live with my parents and I have a very low income at this moment and that makes it even more difficult for me to be self-confident. What advice do you have for me to get past this fear?

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    Gold-diggers

    Do you think that there are women who are only chasing after a man’s money?

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    Personal ads to meet women

    How can I use personal ads to meet women? Is there any special trick to atract women simply by making use of my personal ad?

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    Advice on body language

    What advice can you give men regarding to body language?

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    Bad advice from moms

    Why do moms tend to give such bad advice to men when it comes to women? Don’t they want their sons to be successful with women?

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    Gifts when in a relationship

    Is it alright to start buying her flowers and start doing special things for her once we are in a relationship?

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    Date really attractive women

    What can a guy who wants to date models and other really attractive women do?

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  • Question

    Woman flaking out on men

    What can I do if a woman flakes out on me?

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    Approaching a woman

    How can I approach a woman in such a way to differentiate myself from other men who she sees as jerks trying to get her into their bed?

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    Freezing up when talking to a woman

    How can I stop “freezing up” when talking to a woman?

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  • Question

    Learning from other men to attract women

    You keep saying that men should find other men who successful with women and learn from them, but how should a guy do this?

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    How to tell if a woman is single

    How can I tell if the woman I’m interested in, has a boyfriend?

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  • Question

    How to show you are a confident man?

    You are always giving tips on how to be a confident man and attract women with attitude. My question is: how do you gain this confidence?

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  • Question

    She thinks I'm a player

    Sometimes when I approach a woman she asks me if I am a player. What can I possibly answer without excusing myself or denying it?

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  • Question

    How to overcome nervousness?

    I am usually a confident man who is not afraid of approaching women. However, when I go to a bar or a club and I see a really hot woman, my brain freezes and I have no idea what else to do but stare at her. How can I overcome my anxiousness?

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  • Question

    Will she give a stranger her phone number?

    How is this getting her phone number supposed to work since I am a total stranger to her? Do not get me wrong, I am not afraid of approaching a woman, but I have doubts about them giving me their number since they do not know me.

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  • Question

    Sharing too much information

    After a long marriage and a painful divorce I started dating again. Everything went fine and now I am dating a really hot woman with whom I have a lot of fun. One day, after we had sex she started to ask me questions about my life and past and in a moment of weakness I shared almost everything with her. How bad did I screw it up?

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  • Question

    Start a conversation

     Can you give me some tips on how to start a conversation with a woman?

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  • Question

    Asking her to lunch

    Is it a good idea to ask a woman for lunch on a date?

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  • Question

    Turn a friend into a lover

     Do you know any methods in which I can turn a woman who is a friend into a lover?

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  • Question

    Picking up a girl in a club

    I do not consider myself as a guy with confidence issues. I am always determined enough to go to a girl I like and strike up a conversation. However, at some point I find myself asking her the same boring questions most of men usually ask just to keep the conversation going. What can I possibly ask her so as not to make her feel like she is interrogated?

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  • Question

    How to ask for her phone number

    I am not really sure how long I need to talk to a woman so that I can ask for her phone number. Is there some kind of rule on how long the conversation should be before asking her contact information?

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  • Question

    Topics of conversation when meeting a woman

     What topics should a guy open when talking to a woman who he has just met?

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  • Question

    Being stood up on a date

    It is the second time a woman stood me up on a date and I honestly have no idea what I have done wrong. Can you tell me what could have happened to make her decide not to show up and not even tell me about it?

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  • Question

    How to open up to a woman

    Do you think that it’s necessary to hide any weird hobbies and interests I might have from women? 

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  • Question

    Serious relationship girl

    What should a man do when he meets a woman with whom he would like to start a serious relationship?

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  • Question

    Annoying men

    Women often complain that a man is annoying. What are they trying to say when claiming this?

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    Dating younger women

    I am 32 years old and I have noticed lately that 20-year-old something girls attract me a lot. I hope this does not sound awkward, but is it wrong to be attracted to younger women?

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  • Question

    Get her phone number in just a few minutes

    I have a hard time believing that you can make a woman give you her phone number within minutes of meeting her. Can you give me more details? 

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  • Question

    Obsessed women

    After learning about attracting women techniques, such as cocky and funny, I’ve been going out on dates twice as much as I used to, but some of these women get obsessed. How can I turn them away afterwards? I am dating my boss’ daughter who is totally into me and who wants to turn me into a nice guy. How can I end this without hurting her and without being a wuss?

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  • Question

    Overcoming the awkward silence

    I will go on a first date with a girl I like and I was wondering, what can I do in case we hit an awkward silence and I will run out of things to say?

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  • Question

    Wussy men

    You keep telling men that they are wussies but what does that mean?

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  • Question

    She wants me back

     I have always been a nice guy with all the women I used to meet and I would only end up in the friend zone. After a time I started using the cocky and funny technique. I broke up with the girl I used to date using the cocky and funny approach, after being a shy guy, and she still regrets that we broke up. What should I do now?

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  • Question

    Getting her e-mail or her phone number?

    I have always wondered why some people suggest getting a girl’s e-mail and not the phone number the first time you meet her. Why should this be more effective than the other way round?

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  • Question

    How to make a woman return your calls

    What can I do to make a woman return my phone calls?

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  • Question

    Are nice women also attracted to bold guys?

    I’ve noticed that you are always preaching confidence and attitude to men in order to get the women they want, but does this attitude also attract nice girls?

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  • Question

    Is it ok being rude?

    There are books which say that if you want to attract women and get along with people, you have to rely on similarity, cooperation and praise and yet, on www.Letsbond.com , you keep saying that in order to attract women, a man must be rude. I don’t understand it. Can you help me?

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  • Question

    Neuro Linguistic Programming to attract women

    What is your opinion on the new Neuro Linguistic Programming to attract women?

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  • Question

    Get back in the game

    How can a guy get back in the game after being stuck in a “dry spell”?

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  • Question

    The greatest obstacle for men in attracting women

    Can you tell me what you think it’s the main obstacle in the way of men being successful with women?

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  • Question

    Birthday gifts

    I used to have a crush on a colleague of mine who is three years older than me. I started using the cocky and funny technique with her and after managing to get a date with her, I realized she was all I hoped for. What I want to ask you is: what should I get her as a birthday gift?

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  • Question

    Trying to impress a woman

    When it comes to impressing women, most men choose to take her out to dinner at a fancy restaurant. Does this work?

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  • Question

    Surprise her if you are into her

    Is it ok for a man to surprise a woman by buying her gifts or taking her to dinner if he is really into her?

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  • Question

    Approach a woman when she’s with her friends

    How can a man approach a woman when she is with a big group of friends, eight or more?

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  • Question

    Making fun of yourself

    I already know you have to be funny when going out on a date with woman. They love humor and they love being entertained, but my question is: is it funny to make fun of myself? Is self-deprecating humor attractive to women?

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  • Question

    Can a guy successfully approach a "10" woman?

    If I want to get a date with women who are more attractive than me, can I get a rate of success of at least 1 in 10 and is this a good ratio? 

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  • Question

    Evict the inner wuss

    How I can evict my inner wuss and stimulate attraction in my wife? This woman has seen me as a wuss until now so I don’t want to walk out of the relationship or introduce distance after 12 years of marriage, but I would love to find out more about attracting her.

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  • Question

    Does online dating really work?

    I have been dating for a long time now, but I still have not found the perfect woman for me. Is online dating really working, or it is just full of desperate people?

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  • Question

    Let her know you are a catch

    When going out on a date, how can a guy let her know that he is a catch?

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  • Question

    Boring guy becoming more interesting

    How can a guy who leads a “boring” lifestyle become more interesting and attractive to women?

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  • Question

    Setting up a date in the first place

    What is the best way for a guy to set up a date in the first place? 

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  • Question

    Making the first move

    I will be dating this really hot and great girl for the first time. I am wondering, if she shows interest in me during our date, should I make a move by the end of the night?

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  • Question

    Calling a woman

     How many days should a man wait before calling a woman? 

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  • Question

    Make a move on the first date

    Should a man make a move on the first date with a woman?

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  • Question

    Long-distance dating

    I’ve met this woman on the Internet, but she lives really far away from me. Do you think it would be a good idea to tell her to fly out to meet me?

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  • Question

    Creating attraction when going out for the first time

    Can you give me some tips on how to create attraction with a woman when going out for the first time?

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  • Question

    Pursuing her without getting anywhere

    What should I do if I have been pursuing this woman for a long time and I am not getting anywhere?

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  • Question

    Make her like you

    I am not really the most confident man who has ever walked on earth; I get easily nervous and intimidated by women because I do not want to screw things up when I really like them. What can I do to make them like me?

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Being yourself vs. using someone else’s strategy

2013-08-31 Popularitate  

I have read a lot about picking up women and how to successfully date someone. I understand there are some techniques which have an almost guaranteed chance of success. Nevertheless, I feel like I would not be myself if I would try these strategies. Do I have to pretend I am someone else to make a woman fall for me?

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What to do when you want a relationship with her?

2013-08-28 Popularitate  

What to do when you meet a woman with whom you’d like to have a relationship with? I just felt that we have a great connection, but I’m not sure if she feels the same.

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