Do men really need to take women out on dates?

First of all what is really a date? What do you think the purpose of a date is?

To date a woman means to have a romantic interaction with her. It does not necessarily mean that you have to take her out at fancy restaurants. More romantic interactions with women don’t mean twice as many dinners in the city. Let’s take a couple that has been together for more than a year.

That doesn’t mean that he takes her out every night.  They stay mostly at home, do normal things like going shopping or for walks and behave like they did before they met. This going out to dinner thing has become some sort of a ritual for single men.  It is incredible how this concept became so powerful and how men believe that they have to do it if they want to draw a woman’s attention in a romantic manner.

The key to getting a woman is not to take her out to a fancy restaurant but to know how to trigger the attraction. Once you did that, all the other rules vanish into thin air. If you can trigger a woman’s emotional attraction, she will do anything with you. All you have to do is to be around her and give her your attention. Bottom line, if you have triggered attraction between you, all you have to do is say “come over here” without requiring any dates.

Moreover, if you take her out for dinner all the time, call her three times a day and chase her around, she will get used to this pattern and you will have to continue doing this for as long as you are together. So, before beginning to do so, keep in mind that attraction doesn’t have a timeline. It can occur really fast, if you know how to trigger it, and once you do, you do not have to take her out on too many dates.