How to pick up girls at a bar

So you’re in a bar with your friends and you come across a beautiful woman, you know that you need to have the right skills and to be prepared for any possible result.

Here are 5 tips that work on how to pick up a woman in a bar. These are designed for a rare kind of a woman who will offer you a chance and not for the shy and defensive ones.

1.       A drink

It’s better that you don’t send her a drink but instead go up to her and ask her if you can buy her one. Just tell the waitress to give her a round of what she’s having and tell her that it’s from you. You could try to tip the waitress and tell her to put in a good word for you and be sure that when she looks at you have your glass held up as if saying “cheers!” It’s possible that she will appreciate your gesture and will come to introduce herself and want to talk to you or she might ask you to join her.

2.       The jukebox

If you see her selecting music all by herself you need to think about a clever thing to say to her. You could try to make a joke about you being the music police and enquire about her tastes in music, as well as insisting to pay for the tunes she’s selected. Just try not to seem arrogant and have a goofy and innocent attitude.

3.       A game

It can be anything from darts to video games, think of it as one of the best conversation starters as well as a method to get closer to her. It’s a great way to pick up a girl for men who are generally shy because it doesn’t require too much interpersonal communication and it allows you to get to know each other slower and better.

4.       Cheesy pickup lines

Cheesy lines generally work, it gets you a few giggles and her phone number before the night ends, even if it seems lame to walk up to a girl and ask her if she’s not tired from running through your mind all night. It could actually work.

5.       A dance

Women love to dance, that’s a fact and if the bar you’re in has a dance floor, don’t hesitate to ask her if she would like to dance with you. Not many guys do this anymore but women still love to be asked to dance.

It’s possible that none of these tips are suited for your situation, but if so, you can always choose a straightforward approach and just go over there, introduce yourself and talk to her. It’s just as simple as that, but don’t forget to compliment her.