Kindly break up with her

Despite the fact that your relationship started amazing, right now it isn’t exactly going in the direction you hoped it would. Moreover, even after many discussions, everything you say and do is still being met with resistance. You feel like you are in a combative relationship and that she is always contradicting you.

What happened to the relationship?

You can’t possibly know this until you break up with your girlfriend. I know that a break-up is hard but you must do it. Despite the fact that you know you have to take this step when the time comes, you feel bad about hurting her and breaking her heart.

Ending the relationship when is just not right is more difficult than when it has become truly terrible. When it comes to ending it when it is awful it’s very simple. You just say it that it is over. You both know each other’s pain and she will understand what you are saying, despite the fact that she might be angry or pissed. What is hard is to break up with her when she doesn’t expect it. Most men prefer to make their future ex-girlfriends break up with them instead, by acting like total jerks. 

The problems appear when she doesn’t get your message. She is willing to do anything to make it work, despite the fact that you are both miserable. She seems so committed that you don’t want to ruin it for her, but this is the worst thing that you can do. You will only be wasting her time.

It is not right for any of you to stay in a relationship because you are too afraid to break up with her and hurt her. By staying, you are hurting her more because you are selling her the illusion that it is satisfying for the both of you.

You have to man up and if you no longer love her, you have to break up with her immediately. You must tell her that she is great but that you can’t give her what she needs. Breaking up is hard. It is hard because you will hurt her and also because you have to step into the unknown. Most men choose to stay in bad relationships because they don’t want to be single again.

What you have to keep in mind is that not only will you meet someone new, but you are going to meet someone who is much better for you.  Man up and do not let time slip away. Don’t miss out because you are afraid.