6 tips from charismatic men for a great conversation

Most men have difficulties when trying to approach a woman. It’s never an easy task to strike up a conversation with an attractive woman.  Even if you manage to get her phone number and go out on a date with her, you’ll have to open up a conversation and maintain it interesting. That’s the top dare. Here we gathered some tips from charismatic men which will help you become a master of words.

Honest compliments-Will Smith tip

Starting with a compliment might seem not so original, but the real mission is starting with a compliment so original and honest that will compliment more aspects of her at the same time.

In order to make such a compliment, stay away from the common “Nice eyes!” or “You have such a beautiful smile!”. These are boring and overheard compliments, women don’t even react to anymore. What you should do instead is compliment her personality and traits, something like “That’s a really good point of view.” or “You have an excellent sense of humor.”

Quotes and Anecdotes- Christopher Hitchens tip

A little preparation never hurt anybody, especially when your goal is to seduce a woman. Christopher Hitchens is among the most important public intellectuals, so he knows his way around words. His trick consists in memorizing and delivering a few interesting and funny stories that make a pleasant atmosphere and brings a smile.

Approval signs during a conversation-Bill Clinton tip

It’s an old politician trick that consists in making approval signs so that you encourage her to keep talking. These approval signs can be made both verbally and nonverbally. A nod, a focused look into her eyes and some agreeing smiles will make her feel understood and approved. In this way you will encourage her in opening up to give you more information. Also, you establish that bonding moment when the two of you have things in common.

Stay away from tricky subjects- Ryan Reynolds tip

Since you were little, your mom and dad taught you to avoid talking about politics and religion, especially with unfamiliar people. Well, this advice is still valid. Controversial subjects like politics, religion, sex and past relationships are better to be ignored. You might want to approach her with more fun topics. You want to make her feel relaxed not frowned when she’s speaking with you. 

Switch topics- James Franco tip

The biggest fear is to have nothing to talk about with the woman you want. If you’re a man with various interests and passions, it won’t be difficult to keep the conversation lively. Discuss with her what you find interesting in life and ask her what she does for a living, for fun, for learning.

The golden rule is to not get stuck only in one subject. Avoid talking only about your job or about how beautiful you think she is. It will bore any living creature.

Show her you’re interested- Jude Law tip

Find the appropriate moment to show her clearly that you find her very interesting and you would love getting to know her. Without using cheesy lines, clichés or desperate gestures you have to make it obvious that you want her for more than chitchats. You should do this before she loses interest because you haven’t made a clear move towards her. Just choose the right signs.