Tips on how to date a younger woman

Men will always be attracted to younger women. There is something more than the fact that a younger woman will make a man feel in control, wise and competent or that they have nice bodies unaffected by age. 

Young women have that effect of giving a man’s vitality back through their love for life, optimisms and energy.

If you come to think about it, it’s a fair trade between an older man and a younger woman. A mature man will give her a feeling of security, stability, wisdom and trustworthiness, traits which usually lack in a younger man’s character.

Still, there is a downside to this situation, like in all of life’s aspects. Time at some point, can become an obstacle. Perhaps she will want to raise a family, to develop a career. These are things that you’ve already done and seen. Instead, perhaps you want from now on a life full of adventure, a thing which you couldn’t have since you worked so hard all the time for your career.

A love story with a younger woman might worth a shot, but you need to be prepared and know what you’re getting into.

First of all

Perhaps you already met a younger woman or maybe you’re still looking for one on online dating sites. However, before anything else, you have to ask yourself some questions.

-          Am I looking for a young woman for a short-term or long-term relationship?

-          How long can this relationship be advantageous for the both of us?

-          How will my life change over time regarding my relationship with her?

-          Are my friends and family going to be affected by my relationship with a younger woman?

Of course, you can ask yourself even more questions regarding your choice of having a relationship with a younger woman. In this way, you will have an idea on how your life near her will look like. Depending on the age difference, the scenery of your relationship with her will differ. If you are 60 and she’s 30, she will think twice if she wants to have kids with a man who will be 80 when they go to college. So perhaps if the age difference is so big, you could have a beautiful relationship for let’s say… one year.

Think about the fact that in case of a heart break, you are more likely to be the one suffering. Plus, if the age difference is so big, the two of you might be in this relationship for what the each of you have and not for the person. You will appreciate her body and the feeling of youth and she might appreciate your wealth and reputation or wisdom.

Before anything else, you have to figure out what you want from her and your relationship with her, but also what she wants from you.

In order to impress a young lady, you need to know some tricks and strategies. Here you have some tips on how to impress a young woman.

1. The man, not the boy

Perhaps it’s been a while since you dated a young beautiful woman so it will be easy to get overwhelmed by her charm and femininity.

If you feel bad about the age difference, you should think about the fact that she is giving up some of the qualities that young men have, in order to be with a mature gentlemen.

Be calm and confident, she will appreciate it.

2. Become her knight

A true gentleman, respectful and ready to open doors for her, is still highly appreciated. Pull out her chair, make her feel comfortable and help her choose something from the menu and then order for her. Act respectful and confident, but don’t do it as if you were her servant. Do anything that a gentleman would do for his lady.

3. Be calm

Don’t run for a younger woman, that’s what young boys do. Women are highly attracted by older men due to their ability to control themselves. Let her be the one chasing you, attracted by your mystique.

4. Be playful

It’s good to have all those strong qualities that come with maturity, but you should also make sure that she forgets about the age difference. In order to do so, show love for life and new experiences and playfulness. Have fun with her!

5. Take control

Women feel protected and affectionate when the man makes the decisions. You should consult with her the location for your first date, but never let her take all the responsibility of choosing a restaurant.

You can suggest some places and if she can’t pick one, you decide.

6. Give her space

Make sure that she feels that you’re interested in her and that you have feelings for her, but let her free. Don’t overwhelm her life with your presence if she isn’t asking for it.

Let her make time for you, don’t suggest it to her.