When she’s not returning your calls

This is an issue many men are confronted with. So you had a date, everything seemed to have been fine, but she is not returning any of your calls. There are only two possible reasons why she is not doing it. Firstly, many women are taught to play hard to get when it comes to men and as a result they are teasing you with their lack of attention.  You can call her once a week during several weeks to show her that you are interested in her, but do not stalk her with your calls. You only want to show her you are interested and you want to see her again not that you are desperate and needy.

Secondly, if you did not manage to make an impression and get her interested in you, it is also a reason for her not to call you back. What to do in this case? Basically, there is nothing you can do. If she was not into you to begin with, chances are she never will be. Insisting will only worsen the situation, so move one and date another woman and if she knows you moved on, it’s even better.

What you need to keep in mind is that, in case she is not returning your calls, you don’t have to isolate yourself from the world and wait for the magic day when she will decide to respond. You can keep calling her every once in a while, but in the meantime you can go on with your own life. Go out, meet other women, chances are she may never return your calls, so do not make the mistake of waiting forever for an answer.

Another question men always ask themselves is why a motherly advice should not be considered when picking up women. Truth is, your mother was also picked up at some point in her life and even though she is advising you to play the nice guy, she was also attracted to a confident guy even if it may not have worked out as she had imagined. So the only thing you need to know is that you must have a good attitude when approaching a woman. Be confident and charming if you try to get her curious about you. Women like a strong man who knows what he wants.

The bottom line is, never get desperate or seem needy. If she was drawn to you she will respond, sooner or later. The key is not making a big deal out of it. Be patient and respectful. Try to reach her every once in a while, but never exaggerate by calling her ten times a day. She will feel pressured or even worse, you might scare her by stalking her. An interested woman will always give you a sign, even though she might be playing hard to get.