Dating on five different online dating sites. What else can I do?
I have been trying to find a date on five different online dating sites and I couldn’t find anyone. I am wondering if it is my fault because all I want is to find someone who wants real commitment. What else can I do?
Question from: James
Answer for: Dating on five different online dating sites. What else can I do? from Men Advice Team
LetsBond answers:
Well, you cannot really be expecting to go from one click to a serious relationship. I can’t tell you what else you should do since I do not know how you profile yourself and how you behave online. For this I suggest you to either book an online dating coach or read some articles about how your profile and online behavior should be.
This might be the easiest solution, but something tells me that you cannot find anyone because you are needy. Women might be under the impression that you are desperate for a relationship. It is natural to have a healthy need for companionship, but do not overreact.
Make yourself happy by doing things that you enjoy. Be active in your community by doing some good deeds and you will be noticed. And then, when you approach women online or offline, contain yourself a bit.
Finally, keep in mind that if a woman will pass your girlfriend test, she will win the right to get a serious commitment from you and you will both be lucky.
