Do I have to stop seeing other people?
I have been seeing someone casually for 3 months and despite the fact that I see it as casual, she thinks otherwise. I have promised her I wouldn’t sleep with someone else while with her but I have been dating and now she gave me an ultimatum. What should I do?
Question from: Gregory
Answer for: Do I have to stop seeing other people? from Men Advice Team
LetsBond answers:
Despite the fact that you see this situation as casual, for many women their emotions are related to intimate relationships. When you have promised her that you wouldn’t sleep with someone else, she understood that you wanted her to be your girlfriend. It is not like you did something wrong, but now that she has feelings for you, you should make a decision. It is only up to you to decide whether you want her in your life or not. Three months is long enough to know if you want this to turn into a relationship or not.
Relationships don’t have a time limit. They sometimes end really fast because we push things too far or make them fit an idea of what a relationship should mean.
