Going out with my wife and enjoying her flirting with other men. How do I tell her?
My wife and I enjoy going out and partying: dancing and drinking. We have only been married for 2 years and we have just recently started getting back into it. When we are dancing, I see men hitting on my wife. This turns me on and makes me feel more passionate about her. Is it wrong to feel like that?
Question from: Andrew (U.K.)
Answer for: Going out with my wife and enjoying her flirting with other men. How do I tell her? from Men Advice Team
LetsBond answers:
You do not get jealous because this makes you feel good in your own skin, since she could have had any men in the club and yet she chose you. You could just assure her that you don’t want to see her getting physical with other men and this way she will know that you do care about her.
On the other hand, since she also flirts with them while you are around, it shows you that she is also turned on by it so just approach her gently so that you can give her time to gauge her response to what she is hearing and be careful because you don’t want to leave her the impression that you do not care. If she admits liking it, you two can have all kind of new adventures together.
