How do I get out of the friend zone?
I am seriously located in the friend zone. How can I get out and really meet girls?
I am a 34 years old single guy. I haven’t been in a relationship since 5 years ago. I constantly dated women of my age, younger or older but it seems that I always end up to be friend zoned.
Do you have any advice for me?
Question from: Robert (N.Y)
Answer for: How do I get out of the friend zone? from Men Advice Team
LetsBond answers:
The concept of ‘friend zone’ is misunderstood. A man believes that he is friend zoned by his date when she has no attraction for him. The funny part is that men put themselves in the misery hole of the friend zone by their own doings.
The classical trip to the friend zone goes like this: Man meets woman. Man likes the woman. Man acts too slow and retained not to scare the woman away.
There are situations in which a man believes that if he spends time with that woman she will get attached to him because he is nice and a good listener. So he lays low and acts as her best friend forever. He doesn’t make a move and prefers to wait for his moment.
But when will this moment come? Usually, he has to wait for getting a signal which might never come and then he is forever stuck in the friend zone.
My advice to you is to make a move, act as a seducer and charmer, not as a Grand Auntie in a man’s body. You might lose a friend, that’s true, but you might win a girlfriend!
