How to deal with a jealous girlfriend?
How to deal with a jealous girlfriend? We are always fighting because she always suspects me of cheating on her. Sometimes I feel that I cannot go on like this anymore, but I really wish there was something I could do. Do you have any advice?
Question from: Luke
Answer for: How to deal with a jealous girlfriend? from Men Advice Team
LetsBond answers:
Sometimes jealousy is good. This is a form of insecurity in a relationship, which can be felt by one or both of you. A little jealousy felt by your girlfriend might be good because that means that she fears of losing you, she appreciates you and she will do anything to remain worthy of you. We are built in such a way when it comes to love and romance, that passion in a relationship actually thrives from a little bit of jealousy and insecurity.
If your question is actually how to deal with an excessively jealous girlfriend, you have to know that her jealousy has nothing to do with you, but with her inner feelings and insecurities and you can only deal with it with patience, reassurance and attention. If you are willing to pay this price, in years you can help her overcome her insecurities but if not, you should break up with her as soon as possible.
