How to overcome nervousness?
I am usually a confident man who is not afraid of approaching women. However, when I go to a bar or a club and I see a really hot woman, my brain freezes and I have no idea what else to do but stare at her. How can I overcome my anxiousness?
Question from: Jerry
Answer for: How to overcome nervousness? from Men Advice Team
LetsBond.com answers:
This is actually a common problem for most men at some point in their lives. It is actually pretty simple to solve this situation. First of all you have to think about your strategy and rehearse in your mind the way you expect it to go. Then, go out and try your technique with ten women and see what went right and what went wrong.
The next day you have to revise what happened last night and think about what you can improve on your strategy and then start the same process all over again. There is nothing easier than that. I bet you never thought of giving a lot of importance to rehearsing the technique you will use when you go out.
The only thing you need to do is figure out a default plan when things do not go out the way you expected, some kind of universal strategy to turn things around. Figure out what works best for you and then go out there and meet as many women as possible.