How to speed up the recovery process?
I met her in the same day she broke up with her ex-boyfriend. Since then it’s been one month and a half. We hang out every day but we act as friends. She said that she still needs time to recover from her ex. What can I do to speed up the process?
Question from: Marcus
Answer for: How to speed up the recovery process? from Men Advice Team
LetsBond answers:
You want to do what?! You want to have sex with her as soon as possible or you want a committed relationship? If you keep doing what you’re doing, you will either end up having depressed sex with her when she will drink a little too much and her decision making skills are compromised or you will become her favorite friend-zoned.
If you hope for a real and committed relationship, I suggest you to stop seeing her so often because it’s obvious that right now she sees you as her crying shoulder. She is clearly not interested in a relationship right now, so the best you can do is to focus your attention and care for another girl.
Who knows, perhaps in the end you will have to decide between two women.