Importance of confidence
How important is confidence when attracting women? I am not among the most confident and determined men, I am rather a shy guy looking for a nice woman.
Question from: Porter
Answer for: Importance of confidence from Men Advice Team
LetsBond answers:
Confidence is an important factor when it comes to attracting women but even more important is to deal with your personal insecurities. If you want to be more powerful, you could make a list with all the things you’re insecure about and then, spend time reflecting and accepting those things. This might be weird but it will help you realize what your problems are and what you can improve.
Imagine that you are having a conversation with a woman and the topic of insecurities is in question. She might ask you what you are doing for a living and this makes you feel uncomfortable because you don’t earn a lot of money.
If you think about this prior to this kind of conversation, you will know what to say. The thing is, your job is what it is and if she doesn’t agree or approve, it is not your problem. It doesn’t really matter.
This sort of topics might always come up so think about your insecurity list and learn to laugh at those things. This is the first step you can take towards becoming a confident man.
