More friends with benefits
I hooked up with many women who were attracted to me, but they found out about one another and now I am the bad guy. How can I avoid this from happening in the future? How can I have intimate relationships with all of them without them getting mad at me?
Question from: Liam
Answer for: More friends with benefits from Men Advice Team
LetsBond answers:
Yeah, I imagine that this must be hard on you. The problem does not rise because you are having intimate relationships with all of them. The problem is that you are not being honest with them from the start. They feel like you were hiding the fact that you are also having intimate relationships with other women and they have caught you sneaking behind their back. When you weren’t actually doing that, were you?
Perception is more important than reality to most people and if a woman thinks that you are lying to her, she will end it with you. That is why in the future you must be honest with your friends with benefits if you want to prevent the history to repeat itself.
Women can accept you for who you are, but they don’t appreciate being lied to.
