Refusing intimacy
I have been dating someone for a few weeks now. Unfortunately, she barely touches me and doesn’t do anything to satisfy me from a sexual point of view. How should I take this? Should I stop pleasuring her too? I don’t think that it would be very productive. Any suggestions?
Question from: Glenn
Answer for: Refusing intimacy from Men Advice Team
LetsBond answers:
Be careful, you are becoming a wuss. First of all, you should never tell a woman that you want to have sex with her because if you do that, you are giving away all your power. That is what all men want to get from her. You have to differentiate yourself from them.
What you can do is to turn her on more, until she is the one who comes to you and initiates the intimate relationship. Don’t be so eager to give her pleasure like a wuss. She can get that anywhere.
Be different than all the other men she’s met. You have to build anticipation and amplify the attraction. If you don’t do that, she will dump you because you will be predictable and boring.
