Should I ask a woman before kissing her or should I just do it?
Should I ask a woman before kissing her or should I just do it? I am not so experienced with women and I do not want to screw this up because I really like this woman. Can you give me some advice?
Question from: Jackson
Answer for: Should I ask a woman before kissing her or should I just do it? from Men Advice Team
LetsBond answers:
When I was in high school and I was getting ready to go on my first date, my dad told me that if I wanted to kiss a girl, I shouldn’t ask her and just do it. Now, after all these years and experiences, I can say that my dad was right. There are no circumstances that would make asking her for a kiss better than just doing it.
If you want to kiss her, you can use the “slow approach” which makes you more vulnerable to rejection but it also shows her that you are bold and sensitive. You have to show her that you are self-confident but you also respect her feelings and take the risk of being rejected if she pulls back. The other method consists in the quick “she didn’t see it coming” approach. This is a more direct method and should be left for last resorts, like in the case when you are dating a woman for a while now and she can’t seem to make the step towards a first kiss.
