What to do if she broke up with me?
I am 19 and I have just lost my girlfriend. We were dating for a couple of months now. I know we haven’t been together long, but I really fell for her. She broke up with me because she said I was too clingy and now she has a new boyfriend. It is really painful for me to see her with another guy, but I do not think it would be right to interfere between them. What should I do?
Question from: Jamie
Answer for: What to do if she broke up with me? from Men Advice Team
It is never easy to lose your first love, but instead of grieving, you should ask yourself about what you learned and think about it as a life experience. Not all people feel the same when in a relationship and some are really scared of closeness and this is maybe the reason she broke up with you.
It’s not a bad thing to be a caring man and love a woman, but too many love expressions in the beginning of a relationship might scare someone who is not so comfortable in being that close.
Your first break-up must hurt really bad, but I appreciate the fact that you realize you shouldn’t interfere in other people’s relationships. You are right and this proves you have great values which you should always follow.
As disappointed as you are right now, you should never give up on love; it’s the one thing that makes us happy and human. You will definitely find a great girl someday.
Best of luck!
