What to do when the joke falls flat or she has no sense of humor?
What to do when I make a joke and she does not seem amused or she even feels offended? Is there a way I can save the situation or it’s not woth wasting time with such a woman?
Question from: Paul
Answer for: What to do when the joke falls flat or she has no sense of humor? from Men Advice Team
LetsBond answers:
There are moments when you go out on a date with a woman and you realize that she doesn’t have a sense of humor, she is not in the mood for a joke or you just make a lame joke. You just have to understand that when you are learning how to make jokes you will sometimes run into someone who doesn’t understand your humor.
If you want to save the situation, you could say that it was a joke with a serious look on your face, and that will be funny because your look will contradict your words. This way you will still be able to continue with the Cocky and Funny technique.
You could also give her a sly smile and this way she will stop taking you too seriously. As she starts to get nervous smile at her with a look that says: you’re cute when you are mad.
Last but not least, you can just start laughing and tell her that she is cute, but she could also loosen up a bit. These techniques are great when you accidentally hurt or offend the women you are with on a date, because they let her know that you were just kidding.
Don’t use these techniques too often because you might seem weak and insecure. Don’t worry, women generally like to play offended when teased, so do not turn into a wuss at the first sign of emotion.