When should I hold back?
I have dated this girl I like two times now. I have made all the plans and I think she really enjoyed spending time with me. However, I am wondering when it is time to hold back and let her initiate a new date. Should I still be the one planning it, or should I let her be the one looking for me now?
Question from: Brad
Answer for: When should I hold back? from Men Advice Team
LetsBond answers:
As much as the gender roles have changed in the past decades, many women still enjoy the idea of being courted and many times they play hard to get. If you have waited a few days to call her between the two dates, maybe you should wait for a week now and see how she responds. She will most probably call you, wondering if you are still interested in her.
The complicated thing about dating is that women want men to fight for them, but at the same time they don’t want you to try too much and look desperate. You need to find the perfect balance and act accordingly.
If you act with confidence and show her that you are interested in her, but you also have a life of your own, she will be attracted to you and she will most definitely look for you as well.
