When should I take into consideration getting back with my ex-girlfriend?
When should I take into consideration getting back with my ex-girlfriend? We had a great relationship, with ups and downs like any other couple, but now I realize I miss her and I think she is also still interested in me. What should I do?
Question from: Alberto (Italy)
Answer for: When should I take into consideration getting back with my ex-girlfriend? from Men Advice Team
LetsBond answers:
You should only take into consideration getting back with your ex-girlfriend when you are sure that all the problems which had led to your separation have been already discussed and fixed. You shouldn’t trifle with a relationship. Everyone needs the security and peace that a committed life-long relationship brings and being stuck in a relationship that is going nowhere is not the answer.
So, to return to your question, you should only take into consideration getting back with your girlfriend when you really feel that you can have a life-long relationship together. If you want to get back to her just so that you won’t be single until you find the right women for you, you only cut down on your chances of ever finding her.