Why is she still active on online dating websites?
I’ve met this woman on an online dating website and we’ve decided to see only each other until we figure out whether we fit together or not. The problem is, my subscription expired and I didn’t renew it, but she is still active. She is telling men that she is seeing someone, but she is still using the website. Whenever I try to talk with her about it she is very evasive and defensive. What can I do?
Question from: Chris
Answer for: Why is she still active on online dating websites? from Men Advice Team
You didn’t tell me how long have you been seeing each other, but I’m guessing you recently met. This is the reason why she is still active on this website; because she wants to keep her options open in case you two won’t fit together.
You shouldn’t take it so personally because you don’t really know if this is going to work between you or not. You said that she is telling the other men that she is already seeing someone which is a good thing. It means that she is giving you a chance and she is there only temporarily if you two will click.
As long as she is still using online dating websites you can also do it and see what else is there. Don’t worry so much. You can still spend time together until you figure out if you want to make it permanent and exclusive or not.
