Why men fail in attracting women?
Can you tell me why men fail many times in attracting women? Why do dinner, flowers and gifts not work anymore in getting her attracted to you?
Question from: Zoly
Answer for: Why men fail in attracting women? from Men Advice Team
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The mistake most men make is treating their dates like they would like to buy their affection. Taking her out for dinner and showering her with gifts is not enough to get a woman attracted to you.
The lack of chemistry between you two cannot be compensated by anything, so do no try to “buy” her attention because it is impossible and you might end up being friend-zoned.
The problem is men lose their ability of interacting with women because of their upbringing, the influence of society, religion and culture. All these factors change the way in which men were “programmed” to behave with women and make them easily intimidated and afraid of approaching a woman because the fear rejection.
The bottom line is, as long as you do not know how chemistry works and how to make it happen, millions of dinners and gifts will not make her attracted to you. It’s all about the attitude that makes women fall for men.