Approaching women

These are some tips on how to become successful at approaching women:

1. Approach her no matter what

No matter what her answer is, as long as you approach her, you win. Due to the fact that most men worry that the conversation won’t be successful and they won’t be able to leave with her phone number, they avoid approaching a woman. That is why, if you approach her, you are already better than most other guys who didn’t have the courage of doing it. Once you start talking to her, relax and enjoy it.

2. Think of how you will feel if you don’t approach her

You hesitate talking to her because it feels uncomfortable to take the leap. It is more uncomfortable not to. If you approach her, you will be nervous only at first, after which you might actually enjoy it.  If you don’t approach her, you will regret it for the rest of the day so, save yourself the agony and go talk to her.

3. Don’t put pressure on yourself

If you see the woman as a potential date, you will put pressure on yourself. Look at her as an opportunity to practice your skills. This will help you be less attached to the outcome and will allow you to be more relaxed and more likely to approach her. This way you also improve your chances to make it fun for both of you.