Avoid the awkward moments after intercourse

After intercourse with a person who you do not know very well, there can be some awkward moments. Your mind is filled with questions whether she liked it or not, if you/she should leave, will you do this again, etc.  You really want to avoid these moments because it is awkward and well, you don’t know her very well.

How well do you know her

No matter how well you know a person, when you start having intercourse, it will always be awkward. You don’t know what to do, what she likes or if she was satisfied. You don’t know all her intimate signals yet. The worst thing a man can do after intercourse is look at the woman and ask if she was satisfied. Another bad thing is to apologize about your performance which shows her, that you assume she wasn’t satisfied and that you are not very confident sexually.

Avoid the awkward moments

First of all, you must figure out what she means to you. If you like her and you want to have a relationship with her, you should relax because it can only get better in time by knowing her better. Moreover, if you are starting a relationship with her, you must be able to communicate about sex.

Do not start the communication right after intercourse but do it the next day so that you can both enjoy it more the next time.  This is the best way to avoid the awkward moments after intercourse. Communication is the key to a good sex life.

If it is a one night stand, you need to have a plan of action: when to take her home or when you are going to go home. Afterwards, you still have to talk so tell her you had a great time together.

Honest communication

You must always let a woman know if you see what you are having as a proper date or just a fling. It will be easier for both of you. Tell her what you want because even if you start as sex partners, you still might end up liking her so never be rude to a woman after intercourse.

You can prevent those awkward moments after intercourse only by communicating, but there is a perfect time for each type of conversation. If you like her, make sure that you make her feel comfortable and welcomed in your home. Avoid conversations about your sexual performance until you are able to carry on the conversation the next day. You want to seem confident and to turn her on in every possible way.