Dealing with her psycho ex-boyfriend
I am really attracted to a girl who is not only attractive but also challenging. The only problem is that she is with a psycho who has threatened to kill himself if she leaves him. She is afraid to dump him but he only uses her for sex and tries to control every aspect of her life. Should I stop talking to her?
Question from: Toby
Answer for: Dealing with her psycho ex-boyfriend from Men Advice Team
LetsBond answers:
First of all, why would you want to be with someone who stays with a suicidal control-freak boyfriend? Why doesn’t she leave him? The thing is that when you meet women like this, you should be seeing the big, red flag waving above her head. You can do yourself a huge favor by finding another woman who is interesting and challenging and who, preferably, doesn’t have a psycho control-freak boyfriend and, moreover, never turn into that kind of man.
The fact that she does not leave him is a sign of weakness and that easily tells you she is easy to manipulate. The best thing you can do in this kind of situation is to forget about her and find someone who knows what she wants and who she wants.
