Finding women part 1: Chuck the meat market

Since half of the population on the planet consists in women, it’s not all that hard to find one. We learned that we can pick them up in bars and nightclubs, but it’s a very hostile environment. This is why.

Defenses are up.

Women know that when they go out, they have all the chances of meeting men, but since they already know what they want, they go out in groups. Generally, women won’t leave each other for a man in a club. You are just another pawn in this great game that won’t get to approach that lovely woman sitting at the table.

When a woman goes into a bar is to distrust every male in the room. If you still wish to interact with her, you have 5 to 7 seconds to impress her or else she won’t even give you the time of day.

The real world.

Even if she wants to find herself a handsome guy for the night, you should know that women have their own way of thinking things through, and they are not allowed to admit this, not even to themselves.

If you want to find a real woman, you need to look for her in the real world. In the real world, all masks come off and you are not obligated to be that glorious hunter you are when you go out in clubs. If you are confident, smile and know how to make a woman laugh, you are all set.

This is what you want.

You are looking for a lovely and interesting woman who can make your heart rush from a single touch. So, why put yourself through the weekend night’s sure rejections?

If you keep it real, you will make it easier for yourself, while also making it easier for her to get accommodated and comfortable with you.