Is it wrong to be quiet and shy?
I am an average-looking guy with a decent life-style. I am in my thirties and I can say that I am initially shy but when I get to date more often the same person I become a chit-chatter.Believe it or not, I had a great life without the company of women but now I got bored of being alone. How is someone as antisocial and quiet as I am able to meet new people?
Question from: Somefakename (Greece)
Answer for: Is it wrong to be quiet and shy? from Men Advice Team
LetsBond answers:
Besides the fact that you need advice on how to communicate and meet other people, I got the bigger and more important message that you don’t really love yourself. You talk about the women you used to date as “women who could stand me”, you describe yourself as a quiet and antisocial man who is some sort of an outcast. Even ‘Somefakename’ speaks a lot about your self-confidence and love. You are not proud even of your name. This is very sad.
However, the good news is that you can learn all those social skills from experts. I also recommend taking some psychological counseling and getting to the bottom of your antisocial problems. No one should be alone.
Also, you could try involving in yoga or meditation classes, charities and other social gatherings and activities.
Get rid of your fear and face the world. There are amazing people in this world worth of your attention. Get out of your shell and live life to the fullest.
