Sharing too much information
After a long marriage and a painful divorce I started dating again. Everything went fine and now I am dating a really hot woman with whom I have a lot of fun. One day, after we had sex she started to ask me questions about my life and past and in a moment of weakness I shared almost everything with her. How bad did I screw it up?
Question from: Ryan
Answer for: Sharing too much information from Men Advice Team
Letsbond answers:
We can all relate to the moment of weakness you had. After such a fun ride, of course you will be caught off guard and you will not even realize it. What you need to understand is that women are constantly testing men to see how confident and strong they are.
She was not trying to make you look like a wuss, but actually she wanted to find out more about your life. However, this does not mean you have to share all your life stories in a flash just because she slept with you. This might make you look needy and desperate for someone who will be willing to listen to your deceptions and frustrations.
Most likely there will be no problem and she will still go out with you, but make sure not to repeat the mistake of being weak or complain in front of her. Women want strong men by their side and they are checking up to see if you are one of them. Remember, you are not pretending to be something you are not, but make sure not to let your weakness catch you off guard.
