Trying to impress a woman
When it comes to impressing women, most men choose to take her out to dinner at a fancy restaurant. Does this work?
Question from: Liam
Answer for: Trying to impress a woman from Men Advice Team
LetsBond answers:
What you are saying is that a man should court a woman by taking her to lovely places and pay for everything while chasing her. I used to do this too. After meeting the girl I liked, I would call her, take her out to dinner and chase after her, but when I acted this way, women used to run away from me not towards me. They were playing hard to get, they would lose interest and I would end in the friend-zone.
Later on, after deciding to take matters into my own hands and study how successful men did with women, I realized that they never chased after a woman, but on contrary, they were the ones playing hard to get. I was confused at first but then I realized that when a man courts a woman, he is hinting towards a long-term relationship and marriage.
If she also wants a serious relationship or marriage, she will make you work hard for it, to make sure you mean it.
If you don’t do the courtship, you totally change the game. She will think that you can choose any other women and this will be a challenge for her. This is also why men who are having multiple partners are more interesting than does with no dates. So, remember: If you chase after a woman, she will usually run.
